Lakeside Weddings Kate and Keith Photography 66 p o r t l a n d monthly magazine Maine Wedding Planning Guide just met and two photographers to offer proof to friends and family. T era and Andy personify the newly- weds who are out to collect experi- ences, not just wedding gifts. The Wisconsin couple started their adventure with a cross-country trip with Maine and marriage as the destination. They’d visit- ed here a year before with friends and “al- ways dreamed of making it back,” Tera says. “Neither of us wanted to do the standard wedding. Who needs the frustrations?” In- stead, it was time for some fresh air. “We de- cided that an elopement was best for us.” For a couple who defines themselves with By Maulian Dana Wabanaki people of Maine–the Penobscot Nation, Passamaquoddy Tribe, Maliseet and Micmac Bands–have distinct and long-held wedding customs. Over time, many Indigenous people converted to Christian religions. These weddings are often held in churches but combine elements of authentic customs. Some of us have completely traditional ceremonies held outside or at sacred places, led by spiritual leaders. An ancient ceremony involves laying a blanket across the shoulders of the couple, who then performs a dance with other members of the tribe to a specific song writ- ten for the occasion. The dance is less commonly seen these days, but we still often celebrate the blanket ceremony, along with Indigenous songs, language, prayer, and smudging to bless the union. Weddings are another instance in which Indigenous people walk a line between two worlds. It’s a special day for celebrating with loved ones and nurturing our heritage. Experience the ancient customs and moving traditions of the Wabanaki wedding ceremony.